You value love and affection above all else, and as such you have a warm, sociable and enthusiastic personality. You are demonstrative, friendly, and exceptionally gifted at creating and maintaining relationships, even with the most difficult people. You want to be liked and are always ready to be helpful or offer a friendly compliment. As a good listener, you can focus on the needs and concerns of others and are happy to show your giving and generous nature by helping them. With high levels of emotional intelligence, you are emotionally astute, soft-hearted and sympathetic, and always seem to notice when someone feels sad or is in distress.
Your Map & Living in the Now
When you embark on the journey of using your map you are not only coming face to face with the specific ways that your personality type struggles to live in the now, you are also getting a glimpse of what living in the now feels like for you as an Orange Helper. The word 'Love', written in the centre space of your map, is the quality that you feel when you are fully in the now.
Whilst we can all experience living in the now in a holistic sense, each personality type has a specific definition of living in the now, an essential quality of true self that belongs to their type. When you sit, present in the centre of who you are, you will glimpse your own definition of living in the now, where you have limitless resources, you can relax any need to seek acknowledgement and can feel that you have everything you need.
For the Orange Helper, their definition of living in the now is Love. When you experience the form of Love that lies in the centre of your map, you know with absolute certainty that it has always been there and that all you needed to do was find the space to receive it. You quickly discern that the Love at the centre of your being is not like the inferior imitation love you grasp for in your everyday life and that appears on the outer edges of the map.
It is not the same because the quality of living in the now called Love does not rely on getting other people to like you to feel it. Neither does it mean you have to flatter everyone, be over-friendly or put everyone else’s needs before your own. In fact, living in the now does not require you to do any of the things that show up in the outer edges of the map. Your Love is solid and enduring.
When you are able to connect to the centre of who you are, you will know exactly what is needed in the moment, whether you are seeking the experience of being in the now, simply relating to another human being, coaching, leading a team or working as part of a team. In that space you let go of your personal thinking, you let go of blame, judgement, criticism, anger, frustration etc. This space within you is full of kindness, compassion and deep calm.
This is an incredible journey back to who you were before the world got its hands on you. If you would like to experience a taste of this journey, then please click below for your free map and guide…
Download your free map & guide for the Orange Helper
Once you have had sight of your map you might also like to try a free guided meditation...
My Map to Living in the Now
A learning programme designed to bring you back to the present moment.
This course consists of:
Six downloadable lessons with inquiry exercises
Five downloadable guided meditations
One foldable map (posted)
One full-scale map (40cm x 40cm) designed for the home or office (posted)
One A4 Presence manifesto (posted)