The Purple 

Individualist

As a Purple Individualist, you value individuality,  both yours and your client's. You value being unique above all else and long to freely express yourself. You feel your emotions deeply and are not afraid of their power which is what makes you able to handle strong emotion from your clients. You want to be gifted, intuitive, original and unique. More importantly, you want to be passionate and uniquely authentic. You desire experiences that are rich with feeling and meaning. You would like others to see you as idealistic, emotionally deep and compassionate. These traits mean that you are great at what you do, but this journey is about you stepping up and becoming fully visible in the world.

Below is your map for the journey.

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How does my map work?

Your map is a visual device that enables you to recognise and relax the ways you avoid being visible so you can step out as an authentic presence in the world. 

The outer layers of your map show how your inborn personality traits have become conditioned and fear driven ways of avoiding showing up in the world. The centre of your map points a specific quality that describes who you are beyond your fear based conditioning. In the case of the Purple Individualist who you are beyond your conditioning is described as the quality of Originality.

Learning to use your map enables you to heal and transform your patterns of closure and defence and re-connect you with the 'real' you at the centre of the map. 

Please click on the image of your map to save it to your desktop.

Your journey to becoming visible

As a Purple Individualist, you avoid being visible and don your mask every time you feel ordinary or made to conform. Your journey to being visible is concerned with the ways you ensure that you remain unique in all circumstances. In an attempt to deny your feelings of deficiency you will often recast yourself as being special or unique as a way of valuing yourself on a surface level, and when this is taken to extremes you can often appear grandiose. You have a hidden fear of being emotionally cut off and abandoned and can seek connections that are not necessarily good for you, and you will go to great lengths to avoid feeling lost, disorientated and without personal significance, meaning or direction. You avoid appearing to others as inadequate, defective or flawed and will often portray an outer appearance of strength that you don’t really feel. Craving ideal circumstances, or love, you often ruminate on what is missing and perceived to be important. You tend to worry that others may have a better deal, or are being recognised while your talents are being ignored. Although it would be wrong to see all Purple Individualists as artists, you have the temperament of one and long to freely express yourself and need to be seen as artistic, gifted and accomplished

 

In terms of your work in the world, this means that you:

  • Expend a lot of effort on making your offering unique rather than effective.

  • Turn into victim mode when things don't go as planned.

  • Struggle to see the light side of your work.

  • Take your message to extremes.

  • Look too much at what other people are doing.

  • Find business partners that are not good for you.

 

In your one to one work, this could mean that you often find yourself: 

  • Overcomplicating issues.

  • Going too deep, too fast with clients.

  • Being overly provocative with your questions.

  • Being too 'off the wall' with your approach.

  • Making clients' lack of progress about you being different and misunderstood.

  • Being too intense. 

  • Being too emotional.

The journey to getting visible means recognising and transforming these patterns of behaving, thinking and feeling so you find the space to get back to the Originality at the core of who you are.

How can my map help?

By learning how to use your map as a practice you will naturally be more:

 

  • Relaxed - as you let go of being overly 'deep' with your clients and your message to the world.

  • Fulfilled - as you learn to express your own needs and desires to clients without resorting to drama.

  • Authentic - as you speak your truth rather than resorting to manipulation.

  • Valued - as you have a greater sense of your own self-worth in your work in the world.

  • Gracious - as you feel less resentful when you see clients have what you do not.

  • Open - as you feel less misunderstood by the world and your clients.

  • Accepting - as you learn to be less of a victim.

  • Alive - as you live more fully in the moment.

  • Peaceful - as you let go of being quite so intense in the world and in your coaching sessions.

Offerings for when you know us better!

 "The My Map to Freedom Box set" is a book and full-scale copy of your map 

This box set contains a copy of the book 'How to Live Unleashed and Alive' by Jane Douglas and a full-scale full-colour copy of your map!

"The Visible Coach' is our bi-annual two-day workshop  

This workshop has been designed specifically for experienced coaches or helping professionals who are being called to step out into the world and share who they are or are being called do deeper work with their clients but don't know how to do it. It will teach you how to use the map on your own journey to becoming a visible coach PLUS it will teach you the basics of how to use the map with your clients.

 "The My Map Experience" is a one to one coaching journey 

This intensive face to face coaching experience has been designed for coaches and helping professionals who wish to take a deep dive into the work of becoming visible in the world and for 'seekers' who are looking for the next step on their spiritual journey.

Become a Certified My Map Practitioner 

This programme equips you with all the skills and resources you need to deliver 'The My Map Experience' to your clients. This is for helping professionals who wish to make My Map to Freedom a substantial part of the work they do with their clients. 

Your next step...

If you are a helping professional, thought leader, teacher or coach, or simply feel called to do deeper work in the world then I invite you to join our facebook community by clicking the facebook icon below. The community is dedicated to supporting you in getting visible in the world. If you feel called to join us it will be my honour to serve you in your quest out of hiding!

with warmest wishes

Jane

 

 

 

 

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